A Middle-Aged Bachelor Rethinks His Engagement

An Old Man's Love

He secures a bride through duty, only to realize she actually prefers the other guy.

Author
by Anthony Trollope
Type
novel · Romance Fiction
Published
1884
Length
Long novel
Status
Public domain
An Old Man's Love summary

The story in one page

William Whittlestaff, a middle-aged bachelor living in Hampshire, convinces Mary Lawrie to marry him, despite her long-standing attachment to John Gordon, a man gone to South Africa to seek his fortune in diamonds. Whittlestaff manages the household with his stern housekeeper, Mrs. Baggett. When Gordon reappears, the emotional standoff between the two men forces a choice regarding Mary's future. Whittlestaff, prone to bouts of internal agonizing, eventually releases Mary from her promise, choosing her happiness over his own comfort. Gordon and Mary reunite, leaving Whittlestaff alone at Croker's Hall to manage his solitary life and his ongoing troubles with the local drunk, Sergeant Baggett.

An Old Man's Love characters

Who's who

  • William Whittlestaff

    Wealthy bachelor who struggles between possessiveness and self-sacrifice.

  • Mary Lawrie

    Young woman caught between a promise and her true love.

  • John Gordon

    Diamond prospector returning to claim his former fiancée.

  • Mrs. Baggett

    The formidable, opinionated housekeeper dealing with a drunk husband.

  • Sergeant Baggett

    A perpetually intoxicated husband who is a domestic burden.

An Old Man's Love themes & meaning

What it's really about

Self-sacrifice
Giving up desire for another's contentment.
Social duty
The weight of keeping one's word.

Why it's memorable

  • Mrs. Baggett longing for the day her master breaks a leg.
  • A drunk sergeant sleeping off gin in a horse stable.
An Old Man's Love ending

The ending, explained

Spoilers — show the ending

Whittlestaff graciously sends Mary off with his blessing to marry Gordon. He remains at his estate, secretly funding the care of the troublesome Sergeant Baggett.

An Old Man's Love discussion questions

For your book club

  1. Whittlestaff's internal battle against his own ego.
  2. The role of the housekeeper in regulating domestic peace.
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